have you ever been in a situation when you want to explain everything to everyone regarding how mad yourself with others? or have you ever been in a situation that made you really sad, but you want to tell how sad you are to everyone, but you think that no one will give you a suggestion that fulfil your needs? if so, you are not the first person nor the only person in this world that has experienced that.. me and other peoples sometimes face same problem, but in a different situation..
it doesn’t mean that no one want to help you, it’s just no one understand the situation like you do.. they just judge the situation by their own knowledge of your problems (though i don’t like the word ‘judge’ i can’t find any better word).. of course they have limited information than you do, and your own perspective is different with others.. don’t be mad with other or yourself.. it doesn’t mean that they ignore you.. it’s a one thing that you should remember in your whole life..
though sometimes, i feel that they are so cruel to me.. but if i take a deeper thinking, i found out that some of them just don’t know how to react, or maybe they just say that they think better.. it’s their own right to say anything that they want, and it’s your right to be mad at them.. yes of course, you have a right to do that.. but why do you hurt yourself to be mad at them.. let they do what they want, and you do what you want.. don’t expect them to understand, ‘cause they will never do.. don’t expect them to agree with all of your opinion, ‘cause they have different mind.. and don’t expect them to solve your problem, ‘cause it’s only you that can solve your own problem..
the only thing that you should do is listen to them, sometimes they give you a better perspective than you, but sometimes they don’t.. it’s your choice to apply that or not.. put a respect to them, for someone who are willing to listen and give you advice though sometimes their advice seems silly.. listen and think to the universe, ‘cause the answer is already there, open your mind clearly, take a deep breath and do what you think it’s the best way.. other can’t solve your problem, nor do i.. no one but you..
none of you understand!! yes we are, so why are you bothered against our opinion if you think that you go to the right way?
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